NUGGET 29: DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSIVENESS-08 August 2011
- A dominant personality is the person who always wants to be the boss; he wants to decide where to eat dinner tonight:she wants absolute say on what colour the drapes should be in your home.
- He has the strongest opinion, loudest complaint or most vociferous case for what needs to be done.
- The submissive acquiesces willingly when the slightest pressure is exerted or opposition is raised against her/him. She is a peacemaker, doesn't like to fight, and would rather be taken advantage of than oppose anything but the most glaring inequity.
- 2 Dominant partners go to war with each other. 2 submissive partners will bore each other to death.
- In the best marriage, the individuals will both have moderate amounts of dominance and submissiveness.
- Indecisiveness is one of the most irritating aspects of the submissive person's makeup; totalitarianism can be one of the most dangerous aspects of the person who is high in dominance. Ideally, a good relationship will have a balance of both.
N/B After the 29 nuggets, we are in a moment I call SHANGRI-LA, a place of bliss and where one makes informed decisions
- Remember to know your partner for at least 2 years before getting married.
- Chemistry is the fire that stirs Love. Your relationship should have a lot of it. If she doesn't turn you on, hold on, that may be a clear sign that you are not compatible. Love minus chemistry is equals to friendship.
-We cover 2 more aspects before we close this subject.
i) 7 things you check before you say I DO- to be covered on 9th August.
ii) 50 Similarities and differences- to be covered on 10th August.
Regards
Kiago
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