Friday, August 5, 2011

SOCIABILITY

NUGGET 26: DEGREE OF SOCIABILITY:4th August
- The degree to which 2 people want interpersonal relationships, pursue them, and do well with them needs to be similar if they are going to be matched well enough for marriage.
- Some people thrive on being with groups of people. Some prefer to be alone or with one person.
- Too much aloneness can spawn jealousy and possessiveness, which smother the other partner's personality.
- An overly possessive person does not feel secure; he/she doesn't possess that profound sense of significance. Meet possessiveness head on by saying, "something is wrong here, and it needs to be taken care of before progressing any further in this relationship."
- Don't marry a person that is overly possessive.
- People with satisfying lives have 3 to 5 friends of the same sex and one or two of the opposite sex.
- It would be a mistake to match a highly sociable person with someone who is not.


Regards
Kiago