NUGGET 22;: YOUR VITALITY AND SECURITY- 1st August 2011
- In relationships men want women who look healthy and vital; women want men who can offer security.
- A woman wants a man who will help her to create a home in which she can feel safe; a lifestyle in which she can have and raise children in a healthy, secure environment;and doesn't want to have worry about where the food,clothing or rent money is coming from.
- Most women want a man who provide economic, emotional and physical security,especially during the child bearing years.Interestingly, this desire doesn't change even among women who have achieved outstanding success in their careers.
- Most women also prefer men with whom they can be "emotionally naked"-secure enough in the relationship to be vulnerable and expose their deepest dreams, hopes, and desires without fear of condemnation or humiliation.
- Women also want to feel physically protected. They want to know that if accosted, insulted, or threatened in any way,her husband will not stand by idly, and watch her get hurt.
-If you know that you couldn't possibly live with a person who cannot provide the security you need,you are fooling yourself to think you can be happy in a long term relationship with that person.
- If you are not satisfied with that person now, you will be much less satisfied with him/her 20 years from now.
- If this person matches up well with what you know you need,it will bring tremendous peace and confidence into your life.
Choose wisely,
Kiago
